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Greetings Decision maker,

You might be surprised by how much your decisions are actually influenced by those who are close to you. Research shows that if your friend stops smoking, your likelihood of smoking goes down by 36%, while if your spouse stops smoking, you’re 67% more likely to stop smoking as well.

Unfortunately, our friends can influence us in both positive and negative ways. Research has shown that if one of your friends becomes obese, your chances of becoming obese in a short period of time grows by 57%. Similarly, if one of your adult siblings become obese, the likelihood of you going that route as well increases by 40%.

A big area where this kind of negative influence affects us is in our shopping decisions.

To learn more, check out this blog:



Prefer video to text? See this video based on the blog:



If you prefer audio, listen to this
podcast based on the blog:


podcast: Your Friends Influence Your Shopping Decisions More Than You Think
Recommendations For You

Kind of ironic to recommend something material as I did in previous emails, given the topic of this one. So here’s a different sort of recommendation. As the weather is getting colder, my recommendation is to focus on developing some indoor hobbies that don’t rely on other people to help you protect your mental wellbeing during this pandemic.

As I wrote previously, you need to figure out your needs and desires and consider the methods you used to satisfy these needs and desires before the pandemic. Then, you need to evaluate which of these methods are no longer safe. With much of our activities moving indoors, it’s not safe for you to spend more than 15 minutes indoors with other people who aren’t part of your “pandemic pod” - even when wearing masks, though they definitely help.

So try to figure out what you need and enjoy and how you can fulfill these needs in solitary hobbies. Sure, you can do activities with others, either virtually or with people in your pandemic pod, but it’s also important to have an activity that doesn’t rely on others, so that you can be self-reliant and have full control over it. See “What’s Up With Me” for an example of how I did so.
    Recent Public Appearances

    You might find of interest a number of recent public appearances about my three recent best-selling books:

    • Audio interview on the “Afford Anything” podcast, on avoiding financial disasters
    • Article for the New York Daily News on the deadly consequences of listening to the wrong sources on COVID
    • Article for Lifehack on how to cope with COVID anxiety
    • Article for Real Leaders on how leaders can best cope with mental wellbeing challenges
    What’s Up With Me

    As mentioned in the “Recommendations for You” section above, I want to share how I’m preparing to cope with the isolation of being inside and cut off from previous fun activities during the cold season. In previous cold seasons, I enjoyed parties and game nights with friends, going bowling and playing pool, and visiting theaters and museums. That’s not in the cards during the pandemic, due to the high risks involved with any indoor activities, even when wearing a mask.

    So I worked on figuring out my needs and desires to develop an enjoyable solitary hobby. A fundamental driving force for me is creativity, more specifically creating something useful, for myself and ideally for others as well. Another fundamental driving force is productivity, meaning spending my time effectively in pursuit of my goals. So I wanted my hobby to satisfy those areas, while also being very different from my day job of providing expertise in risk management, strategic planning, and decision making.

    After making a list of potential hobbies and trying them out, I hit on just the thing: indoor gardening in my home office, growing mostly herbs as well as some purely decorative plants. It’s something that allows me to create something useful, as I get to enjoy the decorative plants in my office. It serves others as well, since my business partner and spouse Agnes Vishnevkin gets to eat the herbs along with me. And the risk is very small: sure, I killed a few plants early onward (well, more than a few), but I can always start new plants from seed.

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    As for being different from my day job, indoor gardening involves much lower stakes than the risk of giving bad advice to the leadership team of a multi-billion dollar company and then having the company’s employees and shareholders suffer as a result. I take great care and do my utmost best to give the best advice possible, and always make sure to give 100%. With indoor gardening, I can afford to slack off once in a while and skip a day or two of maintenance without major problems.

    Last, but far from least, the sense of being truly in control is important. I can’t control how well a CEO integrates my advice into her leadership style, but I can control how much water and light I’m providing to my plants, and those are the determining factors for my plant babies. Similarly, I can’t control whether my friends will want to play virtual games together or whether the people in my pandemic pod will want to play darts together. But I can have a sense of mastery and control over my environment with my plants. Given how topsy-turvy our world has become in this new abnormal, it’s very important to have a fun hobby where you have true control.

    What solitary hobbies will you develop to meet your needs?
    Help Me Serve Your Needs

    When was the last time your friends influenced your shopping decision that you regretted? Is there anything in this article/video/podcast that will help you make better shopping choices? Which next steps will you take based on this article/video/podcast?

    Look forward to your feedback! I strive to improve my ability to help you avoid decision disasters and maximize success, so any feedback you can provide on this content - or anything else - will help me serve your needs better.



    Decisively Yours,

    Gleb


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    Dr. Gleb Tsipursky
    CEO of Disaster Avoidance Experts



    PS: Have you read all of my bestselling books?

    book - Resilience: Adapt and Plan for the New Abnormal of the COVID-19 Coronavirus Pandemic
    book - The Blindspots Between Us: How to Overcome Unconscious Cognitive Bias and Build Better Relationships
    book - Never Go With Your Gut: How Pioneering Leaders Make the Best Decisions and Avoid Business Disasters
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